Before writing
anything further I would like to tell you once again that it’s a kind request
from readers that do not please form any misconception before reading the whole
blog as all of us are so called very much knowledgeable and have a profound
knowledge of the two very most popular
word “Relation “ & “ Relationship”.
Relation: An
Introduction
It would be very
strange to try to define relation as this is such a thing which is not a thing
in nature and neither an emotion in nature. Then what is it? Technically speaking it’s a bonding between
two individual who may be either biologically connected or connected due to any
other bonding which develops in a due course of time.
It may be either a
guru-disciple relation, peer-peer, friend-friend, boss-subordinate etc. The relation of a person develops upon their
mutual understanding or common interest.
If you are in same field obviously your area of interest matches and
develops a natural bonding which depends on your behavior and understanding.
Relationship: An
Introduction
The voyage of a
ship of relation has given birth to the very popular and controversial term
called “Relationship”. This is the place where today not only the young
generation is confused but also the mature section of our society.
If we look at the
insight of relationship and try to find what actually this relationship is, we
find relationship is defined as two individuals who are in love with each other
and both mutually respect their love.
Then a million
dollar question arises of which type of love they are talking about to enter
into a relationship. From ancient times we are seeing that an individual is in
the so called love with another female/ male individual as the case may be for
few months or years and then he is in love with another individual. This means
that he is in relationship with one individual for some years and after that he
is in relationship with another person. This disguised form of relationship has
caused much harm to a person than any benefit as the advocates of relationship
says that a person when in relationship find himself in the best phase of life
and a lot more. But this confused form of relationship has grown today in
recent years. You talk to any person and he will be either busy in telling
about his current relationship or the relationship which had been over.
Relation Vs
Relationship
Before discussing
further I would like to ask a very simple question which type of love is
necessary to enter into a relation and which type of love is needed to enter
into a relationship?
One would wonder
what a nonsense question it is?
But this is the
question which is today haunting us and the youths are most victimized of it.
They spend a lot of time in pondering above that is he only a friend or in
relationship with him.
I am asking the
question because today relations are getting buried into graves and the
perceived relationship is flourishing. Today we talk that our culture is
deteriorating and relations are on the verge of extinction. Today people are
not caring about the relations and concentrating their whole energy, resources
and money to cultivate the field of relationships.
Today the saddest part is that people have
clearly defined the boundaries of relation but for the relationship there is no
boundary and no limitations. And if I am
saying that no limitations I mean my words. Today it is not uncommon to see
that the relationships are neither correct on moral background nor on ethical
background.
Today it is not
uncommon to see a couple of double their age in relationship and they feel
proud of it and when their perceived relationship is over they blame their
fate. But the worst case which today we see in our society is that when we hear
that the particular man was involved in an illegal relationship with his niece,
particular girl was in relationship with his cousin, teacher is involved with
his/her student, person involved with his sister/brother in-law and a lot more
better not to be written.
Now I ask which
type of relationship and love they talk about which neither recognizes society,
age, relation, ethics and morale.
Are we so much
inhumane and insensitive that in the name of love and relationship we had
buried every morality in the deep earth?
Love: The Divine
Virtue
When I sometimes
ponder that what is the sole reason that a country famous for its cultures has sinked
somewhere in the deep sea. The problem has root in its own concept of love.
Love which is a divine virtue has today completely lost its meaning. Today love
means which is shown on silver screen and novels. People fail to understand
that the substance shown on silver screens is purely for entertainment and has
nothing to do with real life. Today love has got a new meaning that there is no
love if you are not in physical relationship with your partner then you do not
have genuine love for him and this has further worsened the situation. People
should understand that love is not that that end up in physical relation or
something which brings shame to your family and society. It is a divine virtue
which if inculcated in its real terms will not only bring happiness to you but
also add mental peace to your life.
By: Nitish Raj
